Saturday, January 23, 2010

Give your athlete a sporting chance

Give your child a “Sporting Chance”
in hockey and real life

Winning @ all costs is destroying youth development. What does it take to get people to see the big picture? This means developing habits that will lead to success versus winning games @ an early age. Work, training habits and figuring out how the mind works, will go further toward dictating success than winning @ all costs @ a young age. We have a number of goals @ our summer camp as we try to connect with young athletes.

We teach young people that training and hard work go hand in hand and can be a source of fun and good times. Sweating with your peers in a training environment can be as much fun as scoring and winning. Creating awareness while exposing both assets and liabilities are paramount to young people defining their game; whom they are, and what we collectively believe they can be.

Most young people “think” they train, “think” they have a passion for the game and life, “think” they work. They have no way of knowing until they are involved in the highest synergy settings possible where they can visibly see who does each skill the best. Only then are they in a position to emulate those that set the bar in each skill and exercise. This is not about winning. This is about developing habits that lead to making you a winner on the ice sheet and in life. There is room for everyone to overachieve in their asset categories.

Early success has become a priority of adults @ the expense of a solid foundation in place to prevent fatigue, complacency and sophistication @ an early age. We are witness to this every day we go in to a rink to view another prospect. “Fatigue, complacency and sophistication kills. Fatigue because of conditioning levels, complacency and sophistication because of too much, too soon @ an early age and failure to consciously guard against it.”

We spend too much time sorting out the weak fm the strong, deciding who is best and who is the worst, when in reality no one can predict fm year to year who is on top until age 25 or 26. Even then I’ve seen people totally wrong in their assessments. We place too much emphasis on ratings; failing to realize that young people were put on this earth to validate and anoint themselves as soon as they begin to figure out how life really works.

This is our obligation to our athletes. The most important part of how life really works is learning to train and work. They will find a way regardless of what you say, write, believe, report or how you rate them if you will just let them grow in a “playground setting” with guidelines. They need only to recognize and accept what they do well, and what liabilities need to be managed, so they can contribute in a team setting. If you need to grade your athlete, do it with exposure and awareness as the primary motive. Take your assets, build on them and manage your liabilities to the unnoticeable level if that is possible. Do not have ratings be the deterrent in any situation.

This is Minnesota Hockey Camps; a “playground setting with guidelines” in place to ensure that each child gets an opportunity. We are @ a point in our society where playground settings are close to extinction and this was the underlying reason why so many young people were able to figure out who they were without some adult coming down on them. This was the driving force behind each person figuring out how life works and success.

No one manufactures a champion. Champions rise out of adversity and understanding of their strengths and weaknesses knowing they have a support system in place. They develop in programs that have the vision to allow kids to experiment and try something without worrying about the other team scoring. We know how to take the game and blend it in with recreation. We know how to run a pond hockey practice with guidelines that emulate the early players who developed on outdoor rinks. We’ve been able to equalize the amount of fun in the weight room, on the dryland, in the classroom, on the shooting range and on the ice sheet. We’ve been witness to players leading in each of these settings and not the same players. Hard work is gratifying; a skill in itself.

The skills are in the drills and FUNdamentals are the priority.

We’ve been witness to our worst camper going on to be a lawyer, our lowest talent levels going on to be millionaire professional athletes and a player unwanted going on to be Captain of a Gold Medal group of athletes he was cut away from two years earlier.

We want each of our athletes to recognize the importance of physical activity as well as the use of their minds and curiosity level. Once defined, it’s easier to implement an attitude, swagger, boldness and competitive instincts that lead to young people becoming winners in hockey and real life. This leads to players developing the skill to express their skills; an acquirable skill that gets left out of the mix in most programs and educational settings.

Teaching young people how to win in life is a lot more complicated than teaching a puck skill or breakout. Some coaches have it down in theory, but too few have the skill to teach young people how to win. We believe we have the Template in place to get the message across to our campers. We have it in a formula and we know how to get it across. We are proud to say, “MHC mirrors life with lifetime values.”

A sport, like life, is a process that becomes simplified when we understand how everything works; meaning the body, mind and life. Learn all this and real life becomes a walk in the park when it comes time to commit to something you love. –Ole Gringo-

ã Copyright by Chuck Grillo, Minnesota Hockey Camps
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2 comments:

  1. Originally sent this reply to the wrong article from December 09.


    Chuck-I have been reading a lot of your writings over the past couple of weeks.

    I enjoy your expressed insite on the game-on those that play it-the intangibles in character traites that surface thru the induglement of hard work and committed training-setting goals high and being bold enough to express them but underwriting those big dreams with the understanding and realization that with big dreams comes big work-I liked your article regarding "boxing peope/players in"-you see it happen all to often-labels put on kids early-I also enjoyed your article regarding how some select few are seem to be put into every position to succeed-as tho thru entitlement vs earning it-while others have to swim and fend for themselves to succeed-but the ones that do so-are the ones that catch you eye-the important thing in life about developing a winning attitude...a swagger-confidence...the will to win vs winning being more important.

    All well written and expressed-and words that gave one pause for refelction-introspection and self analysis.


    I had a short conversation with your wife Claire last week and with I believe it was Joe Cardelli-from MHC-there are so many camps out there a parent has to take to considerations-and it is about now up here in Canada alot of parents like myself take to the task of securing camps-in preparation for our kids next season -before the one they are in-has already finished-its just the nature of the beast as so many of the well run camps-find registration quotas filled very quickly-a lot of times by mid Feb.

    I came across MHC thru a online boarding camp search on goggle...spent many hours doing some due diligence-considred the camps my son Zach had attended last year-Pro Ambitions Inc week long boarding camp at Shattuck St Marys' in Faribault MN..which he enjoyed and we strongly considered sending him back to-we looked at the Okanagan Hockey School in Pencticton which has a good reputation and long history-but in the end with the boarding camps inparticular-my wife and I ended up continually coming back to one camp-Minnesota Hockey Camps-and Chuck Grillo and his words of wisdom on hockey-life and living- your wrote about the defining common character traite that defines those that make something out of themseles and those that fall short-being work ethic and committement-that good things happen to people being unselfish ...."even with a puck"...not only made me chuckle but shed perspective on many things so often we take for granted...anyways I am rambling...my 13yr old son playing AAA Hockey up here in Winnipeg Canada is attending MHC up and coming this first two weeks of Aug-and true to your suggestion of bring a friend...he will be-and I look forward to you and the MHC camp staff working with him.


    See you then...

    Mr R Tymkin
    Winnipeg Mb.

    January 24, 2010 10:17 PM

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  2. Appreciate the comments and your support of MHC. MHC is a special place; a playground setting with guidelines. It is our life. Hockey is our life. Some are in to make a living. Our family is in it as a way of life with the futures of those we come in contact with our only concern. The success of our campers and staff is our way of measuring our net worth.

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