Wednesday, December 2, 2009

Thanksgiving Week-end and Gratitude

Thanksgiving Day and Gratitude


All the best on a day we have a lot to be thankful for. Sports, like life, are a true test of a person's intangibles. Lifetime relationships are developed over a short period of time because of the dynamics of the sport, demands of the job and the people we have the opportunity to meet through our travels. You are one of those special ones.

The game of hockey, like life, is full of people in all capacities who know the value of validating and anointing themselves beyond other's beliefs, words, feelings and evaluations. We learn early on that we control our own destiny by acquiring the skill to express our skills.
Others do not validate our worth and success. We were put on this earth to validate and anoint ourselves.

We all recognize the need for support systems in every person's life, but it still comes down to each of us just "getting it done". This process has a way of separating the strong from the Wannabe; people who believe they can make a difference versus people who just think they can be something. Only the strong will survive!

Keep supporting each other and the results will be dynamic. We are all part of something much bigger than all of us combined, namely, our organization, team, each person's life and career.

Our recent date with the Cup brought together a group of people that showed the role unconditional love and respect plays in our lives. It was one of the highlights of my lifetime. Everyone seemed to be so proud to be a part of something that was unique and a part of our lives. Thanks to all who put in the time to make it a very special day to remember. Pictures can be found on the camp website.

-Ole Gringo-

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Happy Holidays

Happy Holidays to you and your family from our Minnesota Hockey Camps family.

All the best during the time of the year we have a lot to be thankful for. Sports are a true test of a person's intangibles. Lifetime relationships are developed over a short period of time because of the dynamics of the sport, demands of the job and the people we have the opportunity to meet through our work and travels.

Develop and cultivate as many relationships as possible. Take all the good out of each of them and put them in a memory bank.

If you send your child to camp, and they return home a better player, you will be happy. If they return home a harder worker, better person, with a better understanding of life and what it takes to play the game, you will be happier. We do all that and more. Minnesota Hockey Camps has a way of creating awareness of assets and liabilities. We teach young people the value of hard work that is fun while eliminating blind spots that shorten and stifle careers. The end result is your child acquires the ability to express their skills.

If you had your choice of one improvement, you will want them returning home a better person, aperson capable of expressing themselves. This is something that happens just by being @ the camp and rubbing elbows with people who have a passion for life, people and the game.

The game of hockey has people in all capacities who know the value of validating and anointing themselves beyond other's beliefs, words, feelings and evaluations. We learn early on that we control our own destiny and in no way do others validate our worth and success.

We all recognize the need for support systems in every person's life, but it still comes down to each of us just “getting it done”. Keep supporting each other and the results will be dynamic. We are all part of something much bigger than all of us combined; namely each person's life and career. Our wish for this Holiday Season is something thought provoking that enhances our chances of maximizing our unique skills. This costs nothing and ends up being priceless.

All of us would like our children to improve so they can move on through the levels. Our Holiday Wish for you is you raising your level of Curiosity. Keep asking questions wherever you go; whoever you meet. One of the most important traits of great leaders is Curiosity. This will blend in well with your aspirations. Every year players like Scott Hartnell, T J Oshie, Ryan Malone and Matt Greene came to camp; they walked in to our office and said, “You’ve seen me play this year. I don’t want to hear what I did well. I want to know what I didn’t do well and anything I can do to improve.”

Our camp has an attitude. Countries have attitudes (Canada’s hockey attitude), States (Provinces), Communities, Organizations, Teams, Lines, Defensive pairs and Individuals have attitudes. The top one fuels the one underneath and on down. Infectious play of individuals fuels the level above and on up to the top. The USA Miracle on Ice team started out as a collection of good college players and ended up impacting the entire world. They, along with the players I coached @ camps and in high school, are the underlying reason why I enjoy an NHL career.

Winning a game, or a spot on the team, is an attitude. Everything is an attitude. We know communities where young people grow up knowing how to win. There are organizations and teams that go in to each game or a play-off setting knowing how to win. They have the attitude, swagger, boldness and competitive instints to express their skills.

There are individuals who have the “IT Factor” that translates in to performing in critical moments and finding a way to win. We like to call it, "the skill to express your skills." Lines and tandem pairs get on a roll and earn nicknames. Goaltenders show a caring level toward their teammates that makes their teammates want to play hard for them.

Our goal is to separate ourselves fm the pack with our unique assets and still find a way to blend in to a team setting by respecting each other’s individual skills. Over-achieving in our unique assets causes those around us to emulate what we do well. This is a team that grows as a team. This is how teams, staffs and departments within a company grow.

Al Neuharth, USA Today Founder wrote, "After 65 you should retire, relax, help others and enjoy it." He says, "Too old and crotchety are risky, but so is young and cocksure."

We say ask questions, sort out all the responses and make a decision. Retirement is nice but maintaining your curiosity level is more important. Recent observations carry more weight, because what you see is what you get. We say and write a lot. We are hoping you have the willingness and wisdom to sort out the good from the bad. This is the way to survive in this world. We only do it to create awareness before problems happen and expose problems when they happen. We have to solve them, because they never just go away.

Al says, under 35 - We should listen and learn.

We say listen, learn and show up on time for work regardless of age. Listening is an ongoing process. Listening is a lost art and a difference maker in winning and losing. Promptness costs the world billions, people their jobs and determines company success."

Al says, 35 - 65 Help run things and look for opportunities to run them yourself.

We say be a detail person, and care about others, before any personal gains. Compete to win. Do this and opportunities fall in your lap. Good people take care of good people, regardless of the situation. Our feeling is there are a lot of good things that will fall in your lap when you work hard with pure intentions.

Personal gains come from respecting unique assets of others and sharing, even if it's a puck. Sidney Crosby and Evgeny Malkin are standard bearers and raise the bar. Sharing stops and losing starts when greed enters in to the equation. We have to guard against it. The way to guard against it is by creating awareness this can happen, exposing problems and solving them. We can’t confuse greed with good greed. Pass when you should pass, shoot to bury it when you should shoot (good greed is a must if you are going to score with regularity) and carry it only if you have to. The good ones think about who they are going to give it to before they get it. Handling the puck is a given.

Bottom line, age and experience don’t give you answers. Passion for life, work, people and play does. When we are around people with a passion for life, work and play, we are on a high. It’s fun to be around people who live what they do.

The Holidays are a time to rehash memories. Life is all about creating memories. When it is all said and done, each memory is a special moment. In Astronaut John Glenn’s words, “A final haunting valediction of a person who made the supreme sacrifice and/or those who sacrificed so others could feel comfortable and enjoy a better life.” This is our camp and life; all about developing people and creating memories.

With our economy struggling, we hope we found a way to give you something that didn’t cost all of us anything but time; time to write, read and digest. All the best the Holidays have to offer.

–ole gringo-

ã copyright Chuck Grillo, Minnesota Hockey Camps
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Bemidji, MN High School Hall of Fame Appreciation Speech

This is a very humbling experience to say the least because I know I am standing up here because of others. Those others are the athletes and staff I worked with @ Bemidji High School as well as a special group of people in the community; namely the parents of the athletes. Without them, I have no chance of having a successful teaching and coaching career and I certainly would never have been able to get to the point where I was able to carve out a 28 year career in the NHL.

This school and community is the springboard for all the success I’ve enjoyed in my adult life. Thanks.

It all started with Ray Witt hiring me and learning from people like Red Wilson, Horace May, Buck Haack, Jack Luoma and Bun Fortier as well as Jim Smalley empowering me to be who I was in hockey. I will be forever grateful to those I coached with and those I worked with as a teacher. I have to single out Con Murphy, Des Sagedahl and Bryan Grand as my coaching partners and Herman Erdman, Tiny Vanacek, Don Smeckpepper, Bud Burns and Herb Whiting as my teaching partners. When I think of community, I think of Bill Howe, Buck Sargent, John Buckanaga, Tuss Langlie, Halvor Reise, Dick Kroll, Sheldon McRae, John Glas, Cliff Morlan, Jim Carrington and the Fish Fry crew. Those Baseball teams have no chance of winning without Jim Carrington’s foundation skills. This man’s contribution to this community is priceless and can’t be measured. Joe Vene’s national anthems showed us the level of excellence you can achieve if you work @ your unique skills. The Cheerleaders, their advisors and the Banana Band were an important part of that winning combination.

The player list goes so deep that it would eat up all my time to mention those who got it done during a critical moment in an important game. There are some that have gone to the highest leagues in sports and those players defined my future. There are players already on the wall responsible for my career and there are a few others who defined my career that are missing.

The Sargent’s, (Coaching Gary Sargent for 9 Varsity seasons is a rarity but an absolute treat and Earl was special), Izzy (chances are slim I will ever meet another Izzy), Bill Himmelright, Richie Glas, Keith Hansen, The Howe’s, John Buckanaga, Red Donahue, Ralph Lovering, Tom Reise, Ernie Blackburn, John Melhus, Andy Kannenberg, Charlie Meyers, Stan Drew, John Melhus, Mike Mohler, Jim Conway, Jim Yost, John Boyer, Tom Hill and so many others defined my career. I find it truly amazing that a 15 to 18 year old can define an adult’s career, but that is exactly the way it happened with me and so many others in this business.

Mark Manney, pilot for Air Force One, credits some of these players for defining his career. Just this past summer the bus driver for those state tournament hockey years showed up @ our camp with his Knit Cap that said “driver”. Linda Sandy showed up in San Jose sporting season tickets for the Sharks.

There are basically two types of people in life. There is the “got it made person” who tends to get sophisticated and complacent. Then there is the talented one who is guaranteed to succeed because they never put themselves in a position to get complacent in life. They maintain that “chip on their shoulder” mentally. Joe Motzko is a modern example and I’m sure you all know him after last night.

We all have that dream of being involved in things we love to do. In my case it was sports; specifically hockey and baseball. I have never once looked @ myself as one who is the best, but I never once looked @ myself as one who is the worst. I’ve always manage to look @ my life as, “I am somewhere in the middle striving to be as good as I can be.”

I always liked team sports because I found it easier to win as a team than I did as an individual. If you put a team out there one on one, they are going to struggle. If you put them out there in a team concept, give them some guidelines and principles to play by, we can all have success. Rarely do we do anything in life without being part of some kind of team. We start with being dependent, move to being independent and thrive when we become inter-dependent with others.

When I became a coach, I found myself very demanding and I am still that way. The difference is I want everyone to do well in life and the game. There have been times when I’ve been hard on people and they couldn’t handle it. I like people who work and play hard and I like aggressive people who care about others while they are maximizing their potential. I believe it is healthy to survive in this world on determination and smarts while being a team player and caring person.

I am still under the belief that most people accept when you are hard on them or tell them something they do not want to hear; but only when they sense you have a passion for everything you do and it is done out of love and you wanting them to be a success story in life. I have never been afraid to hold others accountable and I expect players to hold themselves accountable without creating bail outs because of schedules, coaches, divorce or some situation beyond our control.

I am still under the belief that a disciplined, no-nonsense approach is the only way to go when dealing with people and I have found this to be true in the business world.

We all become better @ what we do when we no longer have anything to prove to our critics. We need to look for the good in every situation. I had to change in that category, and that made me a better coach and a better person. Composure to put mistakes behind is critical.

I learned early from my parents and the Marine Corps to do whatever I’m asked to do. If I say I’m going to do something, I usually get it done. If I say I’m going to be somewhere, I will be there on time or call. I learned from my wife, Clairene, how important it is to empower your spouse and those you work with. Let people and athletes be who they are. She is from Bemidji, so she is in line with all of these Bemidji people who made my life what it is today.

I love to deal in the letter “C”. Cerebral enough to make good Choices, Compassion for others, Curiosity to learn, Composure to put the past behind and perform in the present, answer your Critics, Confidence in our abilities, Communication skills like speaking and listening, Commitment to the task and Competitively mean where you win all the little battles. All of this forms our Character and ability to perform in Critical moments. We need to develop an attitude about life so we can walk with the swagger and the Charisma we need to work our way through life. All this is necessary beyond any skills we have.

If we can make a commitment to everything we do, we can stay competitive and thrive. That is what I have managed to do.

We care about what we do, work it and live it. I lost interest in the fantasy of sports not long after I joined the NHL because I discovered image through perception was the furthest thing from what is real. I lost interest because I discovered real fast that image through perception was taking over in our society. I was witness to companies failing because people and athletes got caught up in perception and image being more important than substance and reality. Companies are people driven. Beside manners, politically correct, perception driven people and sound bytes just do not cut it.

Image resulting from substance is what we are looking for. Show people you are on the team for all the right reasons and you can be counted on to be there when they need you. This includes being there for your teammates and coaches after your playing days are over.

In my later years I have been consumed by the tragedy of sports, especially in the area of development. We have done the best we can do with the knowledge we have at our camp. As the years go by, we find we need more and more knowledge. This stems from observing both highly skilled and supposedly predictable players, as well as those with a blend of upside and skill, who fail to become what others believe and/or predicted they would be. Skill, training and the intangibles will decide our fate.

I am on a continuous search for Peace of Mind and every year I get closer. Moments like this bring me closer. I will admit that I’ve spent most of life trying to prove to people I can graduate, play, coach, scout, and manage. I’ve always had to prove to others that I am better than they think I am. It all started with sports and schooling in the early years, then it was the Marine Corps, proving to others I could graduate from college and going on to get my Masters with 80 credits toward my Doctorate. I’ve spent a lifetime proving myself to others and to myself and I don’t regret that. I love being an underdog type of guy and I will always have that chip on my shoulder mentality we need to sustain and continue to grow.

Think big; believe big and big things will happen if you apply a dose of determination. I used to love going to the state tournament for two reasons. Number one, young people matured probably one full year under that pressure and you could not afford to pay for the positive exposure for the school and community. They also had more time to assess their “blind spots”, something we all need to do.

Treasure the memories, make it all part of the mix, but I hope the memories you share go way beyond your high school years when you reach my age. Thanks to all of Bemidji

-Ole Gringo-

ã copyright Chuck Grillo, Minnesota Hockey Camps
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Sidney Crosby validating and anointing himself

Sidney Crosby, validating and anointing himself as a person and player on the NHL playground.

I’ve had more than one writer and person ask me my feelings about Sidney. Each time gets a little better. The NHL playground is no place for the timid and weak minded. Sid faces some sort of challenge every day, especially game days, of his life. This is the latest piece I did on Sidney Crosby. Hope I did him well.

What makes Sid so special?

"He sparks a level of excitement that only a few figures do. Has to do with qualities revolving around authenticity. You see what you get."

I first met Sidney Crosby seven years ago. We were sitting across the aisle from each other on an airplane, and even then you could tell he had his training program down to a science; he knew exactly where he was going and how he was going to get there.

As we parted ways, he said, “Well, Mr. Grillo, if you're ever at a game where I'm playing, I would appreciate if you would come down to the locker room and visit after the game.”

This is a major-league statement for a 15-year-old; a hint of everything that will happen in the future.

Sidney’s assets go far beyond his talent. He is humble and hungry, has all the intangibles and is as great a person as he is a player. He embraces responsibility and a real challenge in life. My wish is that he plays with a joie de vivre that is rarely seen, making him an ambassador for professional sports where laconic, self-absorbed people seem commonplace. I hope he keeps smiling like a kid having fun in the sport he loves. My wish is he never loses his fifteen (15) year old personality.

Sidney's creativity, work habits and will to win are as good as it gets. He sees every option on the ice and he learned early on that sharing the puck with his teammates would get him more rewards and wins than over-handling the puck and passing out of necessity. “Shoot when you should shoot, pass when you should pass and carry only out of necessity.”

He is one of those “critical moment” players capable of capitalizing on the few critical moment situations a player gets during a game. If he misses that one chance, he is one to go back to the rink on an optional practice day and have the equipment person deal him two-hundred pucks so he could practice that shot over and over again. He did this after missing a critical moment shot during the 2007-08 season and he used the equipment person because no players or coaches showed up for the optional practice.

Sid is mature beyond his years with a curiosity level beyond his years. He is the most dynamic player in the league and takes nothing for granted. He’s on a mission to get better because he knows he’s still in his development years. He is one who will “never arrive”; much the same as Mario Lemieux.

Young players can learn a lot from Sid. For one, don't take your life, career, talent level or status for granted. There is always someone out there capable of catching you, passing you and beating you, both in hockey and in life. Sid raises the bar in every situation he encounters, whether it’s a game, training session or social setting.

He’s not interested in being a Lemieux, Richard, Beliveau or Gretzky. He has studied the game to the point where he will be a blend of any greatness he sees in others. He will validate and anoint himself, be Sidney Crosby, leave his own mark and blaze his own trail. In doing so, he will not say or do something that would dismantle or build himself up; so he will not be @ fault either way. He will get it done in his own way because he’s been through the hard knocks and lessons in life @ a very young age.

There’s no greater honor for a parent than to hear that their son is a detail person who puts the welfare of others ahead of their own career. You can say that about Sidney Crosby. He will be even keeled and fully aware of what’s on the other side of the rainbow. He sees everything that is going on around him, both on and off the ice, and he reacts as he should.

Every time I see Sidney Crosby, I see something special. We’ve had some of the most unique and caring conversations you could ever have between a scout and a player. All this and I am fifty (50) years his senior. I spoke with his father and was able to tell him that he and his wife raised a player who is equally great as a person. I know of no young man who has life figured out any better than Sidney Crosby. I observed the way he developed a relationship with Chris Kunitz and Bill Guerin. The line seemed to respect what each guy brought to the line and they functioned well. His complete play in the Cup final led the way to a Stanley Cup for the youngest Captain in Cup history.

He is challenged by someone every time he goes on the ice sheet and his demands off ice are only exceeded by Heads of State dealing with this complex world. The scouting fraternity is in tune with the six H's; head, heart, hands, hips, heels, hockey sense. Sid has his own set of letters with gallant, gifted, grace, gracious, gritty, gratitude and he has Geno on the power play and in a critical moment. Sid has the grit to be King of the Stanley Cup playground, He accepts all challenges. He has the gifts of the most gifted in all of sports. He has the grace of a ballet dancer when appropriate, always shows gratitude for a solid upbringing and all that is happening around him and has the grit of a true warrior.

The current “Stable” on the Penguins team is blessed with quality athletes who can contribute in a lot of ways and be King of the Hill on any given day. Sid gets enough challenges fm within to prepare him for anything thrown his way by the opponent to test his gallantry. His suite for the under privileged, and many charities, are an extension of his graciousness. All this and he has “Madison Avenue savvy.”

There are a number of athletes that show you something in a variety of situations. They do things @ certain critical moments in a game and they do it with regularity. They understand all that is going on around them. Their drive to do what most players wouldn’t even dream of, make them different from others. They get to take more chances than normal players. It’s instinctual for them to do this and also instinctual for them to go to the paint in fearlessly. They understand being natural and fearless leads to success.

Sid embodies the consummate team player. I hope he spends his entire career I in Pittsburgh. When your most gifted player is your hardest working player; one to admire off the ice, you have a very good chance of doing a lot of winning throughout their career. Sid, as a leader and ambassador for the Pens, is something we all can appreciate every day.

We are writing about a young man who will politely stop whatever he is doing if it is appropriate, walk over, and totally disarm you as he shakes hands and converses. If not appropriate, he will find the time while you are still in the room or immediate area. He is one draft pick over the years that will initiate a conversation and enjoy doing it.

During the Washington series in 2008-09 playoffs, he was walking through the lounge area between the locker room and training room. He had a plate of pasta in one hand and a bottle of water in the other. When he saw me, he reached down to put the pasta on the floor. I stopped him and told him to continue on to the training room because I felt that was more important. Thirty minutes later he found me in a hallway near Ray Shero’s office, walked up and said, “My hands are free, now we can shake hands.”

I have been around NHL players for thirty years. This was a 1st for me and I am not one bit surprised it was Sidney Crosby. He will always be in and around a lot of firsts. I am honored to be there for his 1st Stanley Cup, mine also; the youngest Captain in the history of the NHL to win the Cup. I am one who believes that any young man who reaches his “engaging” level will perform better in games.

Ole Gringo

Chuck Grillo is an amateur scout for the Pittsburgh Penguins; an owner of Minnesota Hockey Camps

Brainerd Lakes Area, MN

www.mnhockeycamps.com

Acquiring the skill and willingness to express your skills

Nice to be back watching the prospects play. I find it interesting to study the mindset of the younger players. First of all, they wouldn't be here if they didn't possess some unique skills. The first question for them to answer in this setting is: Have I mastered the ability to express my talent and skill level? Expressing a skill is an acquired ability that needs to be taught and learned. It is not genetic. This is something you learn; no different than passing, shooting and receiving. It doesn't “just happen”; it doesn't automatically happen; it takes time and hard work; especially during the summer months that give you a psychological edge on your opponent.

Expressing your skills in a critical moment is another level yet. Some are born with it; others have to acquire this by practicing like you play with thousands (10,000?) of repititions.

Hanging in there, or maintaining, is not progress. Every one of these players has one or more unique skills and they have to show them in every game or they will not be part of the program. It starts with the way they professionally dress and act; their mental maturity level. Their desire to compete, and protect all they have worked years for over the years is something to be ingrained in the coaches and players.

They are brought up to respect what each person brings to the team and they willingly accept a lesser role to get results (win) as well as win a job in the NHL with a back up game unlike their 'A' game @ a lower level. This carries over to the ice and they, most all of the time, win by sharing. They are placed in a playground setting, and teams pick what they believe are the 'most real people' out of the player pool. They have enough players, and the stakes are high to represent their organization, there is a ton of “unawareness” in this area, so obviously teams are not 100 percent right. Some of the worst years for pro teams are years with anointed superstars who don't get it, don’t live it, and the teams learns fm that. Players are allowed to express themselves in a playground setting with no entitlement in this business. They are @ a point where they need to make a statement no matter what it takes to make that statement.

If you bring forty (40) players in to a playground with some guidelines and no regard for what people write, say, believe or think, the twenty (20) who come out have a good chance of being the right 20. Skills get you in to the game. Intangibles difficult to measure allow you to express your skills and win the games. Players need the ability to summon energy, boldness, attitude, swagger and the killer instinct, once they reach a certain threshold of belonging, which can beat those blessed with more skill. I have seen a lot of very good players look like ordinary players in these settings and it all stems fm the inability to express oneself.

The best players want to play the best players if they have the right intangibles. The best teams want to play the best teams. The best countries want to play the best countries. It's tough to figure out life when you spend part of it hiding fm your opponent in life. Look them in the eye and get it on. You don't become the player you can be until you figure out how life works.

Expression of your skills and ability is all that matters. I believe putting highly skilled athletes together for short periods of time is a good thing because there will be a best and a worst in every group. Assigning them back to their teams is also good because they learn to lead and excel while others emulate their unique skills with the hopes of catching up and passing them.

There is more than enough evidence to prove this works. If your primary motivation for playing up is 'my child needs to be challenged', there is an argument you are stifling your child's career. Only the best out of the best benefit fm this experience.

Canada's provincial teams @ the 15 and 16 year old levels are another example of what is right. The player pool is this age group is kept around 100 to 120 players. Every one of those players have another team to play on during the season with time set aside to bring them together for special occasions and tournaments. I would have to believe that this player pool changes with regularity in line with training habits of players in and out of the season as each year goes by.

Skills to express skills touch & carry skills in traffic, slot presentation after going out of sight, thru on time with right angle, deception, look offs, false information, tandem play keeping the rink as big as possible, body control to free stick on rebounds and loose pucks are skills that are glaringly missing.

Center forwards dictate the course of the game. If your timing is right, presentation to the puck right, the games becomes easier because the rink stays bigger. If you aren't coming back to the puck when you are about to receive it, the pass is high risk for any transition to defense. Grabbing a piece of the weak side of the rink and maintaining a bigger gap between the center forward and strong side wing is imperative for everything to fall in to place.

Strong side play in your own end needs a lot of work. There were a few examples of players using their body to ensure an easy and safe break out pass guaranteed to move the team up the ice. There were also too many cases of cleared pucks predictably on their way back in to our own end. Strong side point coverage is a unique and teachable skill that works best when the strong side wing forces the strong side defense out to the blue and then comes back to the puck.

Controlling the opponent’s body before controlling the puck is imperative. Strong side point coverage is one underlying reason behind every sustained fore-check, especially when the strong side point gets another shot on net with another loose puck for the offensive team to jump on.

You will hear them say, “I am a detail person and I care about others. I have always put the welfare of those I care about ahead of any personal gain. I am finding more success by sharing than I would have by standing alone. I have a work ethic second to none both on and off the ice.”

-ole gringo-

ã copyright Chuck Grillo, Minnesota Hockey Camps
24621 So Clark Lake Rd P.O. Box 90 Nisswa, MN 56468-0090
Phone 218.96.2444 Fax 218.963.2325 Email chuck@mnhockeycamps.com
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Cup departs with memories galore

I drove the Cup Keeper to MSP @ 0600 hrs on October 24, 2009, and he is off to Pittsburgh.

Everything went off in a timely order; better attendance than anticipated. We celebrated the life of 6 month old Grandchild, Piper, with our Pastor having an experience of a life time in Baptismal procedures. We had a diverse family, and extended family, brought together for all the right reasons.

The uniqueness and good of each person surfaces during times like this. Great lessons for young people learning to give and appreciate how life works.

We raised a considerable amount of money raised for the Klein family with donations coming in fm every angle, some tears shed for a great man, but much more joy and celebration of a life. Sammy Granado made it an even more special evening with a very generous contribution and celebration speech. Don Klein joined us @ two of the sites with a rest in between and his strength, courage and power sent a message to all. Once more Mario’s jersey accomplished something good for Cancer. This is my 9th time with one jersey left.

If you want to learn the "Spirit of giving", spend a few days with the Sammy Granado, Tom Hexum and Dick Hexum families. Scott Hartnell and T J Oshie are in the same mold as young professional who remain humble and hungry.

Every minute of the time was filled with joy and appreciation for the Cup and how life works. Lessons learned by our family can’t be taught in school systems; whether young or old, and including me. The Cup complements the game beyond imagination, is an inspiration (along with the Cup Keeper) to all who want to experience this international treasure, and the Cup wins once again!

The Cup Keeper, Mike Bolt, is one who goes well beyond his job description. He is @ the top of his game. Time spent with Mike is an added experience for those who want to take advantage of his knowledge and respect for the Cup. I enjoyed the ride down fm the Brainerd Lakes Area as much as the Cup experience and will treasure the pictures taken.

What else can I say outside of:

Thanx to all who made all this possible; especially Mario Lemieux, Ron Burkle, Ray Shero and the Pittsburgh Penguins organization. I will always remember the Pittsburgh Penguins coaching staff and players who made all this possible as well as "The Stable" I'm proud to be a part of.

ole gringo

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Lord Stanley’s Cup set to arrive in Brainerd Lakes Area on Friday Oct 23rd!

Chuck “Gringo” Grillo is part of the Pittsburgh Penguins staff and an owner of Minnesota Hockey Camps. We will be celebrating the Penguins Stanley Cup winning season @ Minnesota Hockey Camps and the Brainerd Lakes Area when the Cup arrives in the early afternoon on the 23rd of October.

While a special day for Gringo, who has been under contract in the NHL for 29 years, he has a totally different outlook and reason for wanting the Cup. Yes, this is the first celebration he has had with Lord Stanley’s Cup. Yes, MHC is very excited to celebrate this moment @ their camp.

“Being a part of a Stanley Cup winner is a very humbling experience. You immediately think of all the reasons you had this opportunity when the buzzer goes off. Included in those thoughts are all those I’ve been fortunate to meet, teammates, compete against and work with over the years. This includes all of the athletes and parents we’ve met through our camp as well as those we worked with, mentored and taught while in the teaching profession and in the NHL. Without key people in my life, I have no chance of having a successful teaching and coaching career and I certainly would never have been able to get to the point where I was able to carve out a 30 year career in the NHL and be a proud owner of a special hockey camp for athletes.

People with the skill to express their skills on and off the ice have been the springboard for all the success I’ve enjoyed in my adult life. I will forever be grateful to those who had an impact on my career. They, along with countless success stories @ our Camp, have been a source of inspiration over the years.”

Environment, effort and experiences have a way of building the foundation that affects our lives. Minnesota Hockey Camps has 10,000 lakes as a background setting, 10,000 repetitions for skills to become habitual and 10,000 hours of hockey specific training that defines the player; and ultimately the person. Compile those numbers, think and believe big and big things will happen.

Having told thousands of athletes to “dream and believe big” for too many years to remember, he believes this promises to be a special day for reasons far beyond the person who won the right to have the Cup.

“Good teammates recognize that special moments are not about the person. The Cup experience is more about the people you can impact, or those who simply enjoy the Cup, than the person who has it. I find that the Championship Ring is the same. Seeing the joy on the faces of those having an experience with this “Worldly Treasure” will be a highlight of the day for me. When the results are in, my wish is the Cup touches the hearts of as many people as possible and the memories are forever. We are doing this for all the right reasons.”

Minnesota Hockey Camps has joined the internet craze. We have become members of Facebook and Twitter. Join our “Friends” on Facebook and “Follow” us on Twitter. We will be posting player updates, workout tips, games we will be watching and many more topics. Be sure to include your achievements and those of your teammates.

We wish all of you the best of luck as your season gets underway. If you love what we have to offer, tell the world; if you don’t, tell us. “The campers are in charge of our destiny.” Share your MHC experiences with your teammates and friends. If you went through our camp working hard with a smile on your face, bring a friend just like you. If you left us a better person, teammate and player, we are grateful. The players who attend make the camp the success it has been over the years. Without you, we have no camp. You, with a friend or two, make it better.
See you online and in the rinks!

-Ole Gringo


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Understanding the human mind; its potential and limitations

I traveled with Dan MacKinnon and Patrik Allvin to watch U-18 and European Pro games in Finland. With respect to my colleagues, they are two great guys, always looking to improve with a curiosity level beyond the norm. They are both great people to be around and have a chemistry that leads to bigger and better things for those around them; which ultimately leads to a better life for them. They have a selfless chemistry that leads to growth as a team; no different than a hockey team growing as a team. To be honest, my joy is going to be fm watching the two of them grow in their assignments with the PENS.

There are lessons to be learned here. Both have taken the time to figure out how life works. The Penguins are fortunate. I left Finland on a high. It was fun! Got home, had to regroup and run some kind of transition game to get me going on the 1,500 mile drive to PNS via South Bend and Indianapolis for games, hauling a trailer with my 75 Honda Gold Wing and an Elliptical work out machine. Doing all this with the current spin of the big club makes it a tougher trip. I’ve been in a spot where the team is trying its best, winning some and losing some, even though it’s injuries, and know full well the everyday burden. My only feeling is always, “KEEP THE FAITH”. Good people win out in the end.

I will always believe my eyes before my ears. We write what we see. This is always tough when players play poorly and well below their notoriety level. This is the only way to get an overall picture of the player, a history of expression of their skillset and mindset. Without an overall picture, how does anyone get the big picture? The toughest assignment is projection to age 25-26.

Bottom line, each player has some unique skills. Sustaining and building on the skills is all that matters @ this young age. It may come down to time spent in summers getting bigger, quicker, stronger, faster; which gives you a psychological advantage on your opponent in life. People and players are what they are. How do they improve on that? One answer to players converting during a critical moment is related to conditioning. Well conditioned athletes feel better prepared; have less anxiety, which leads to players being surer in a critical moment.

I read an article in the Pensacola News Journal related to adrenaline flow, stress and trauma. The article is entitled, “Military experiment seeks to predict PTSD.” PTSD is Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. They are running tests on soldiers before they ship them off to war. Their statement is “who and why certain war fighters exposed to bombings and bloodshed develop paralyzing stress symptoms while others who witness the same trauma shake it off.” Every aspect of life is trying to figure out the same thing. They are trying to understand the human mind; its potential and limitations. It could be some soldiers are in better shape than others and therefore feel stronger and surer of going into combat. Maybe if it gets figured out at the top level (war) the effects will trickle down to the sports and other levels. Hopefully everything will be figured out for all.

The number and amount of discussion over the past week is impossible to measure but possible to document. I was reading Blink, by Malcolm Gladwell, while on the Stairmaster, after returning fm Finland. I found an interesting part in the book that got me thinking about part of my discussions with Dan and Patrik. How do we get to a level where players understand how to complement each other? Outside of a revolving door, much of this can be accomplished in practice.

Part of our discussion over the past week is finding long time partners to complement the existing stable of players. Everything seemed to work well in the playoffs but the future is the future. “Sustaining” what the PENS have accomplished under the new regime to date is a priority. Every team has a certain identity with a collection of assets. What assets are missing that would improve the current edition?

Go to page 225 of Blink and move on through the part “running out of white space”. This section of this book got me thinking about the Lemieux’s, Crosby’s and Malkin’s of the hockey world as related to elongated time. I have always been aware of elongated time but no one ever taught me how to teach it or expose it in young people. “Most of us, under pressure, get too aroused, and past a certain point, our bodies begin shutting down so many sources of information. We start to become useless.” Larry Bird would say, “The court would go quiet in critical moments and the players seemed to be moving in slow motion.”

Dan Bylsma and staff are fully capable of handling this problem and no doubt understand it better than I do. If there was ever a staff I believed in all the way through the system, this is the one. If there was a staff I would want my own child a part of, this would be the staff.

I thought about how we need to create situations in practice @ our camp that bring the pulse up to the point it reaches when playing in a game with star players. If we can, we will increase the chances of players converting in critical moments. Part of the process is exposure and awareness of how the mind works in a critical moment. We need to start measuring converted chances in practice; raise the level of expectations in practice, and provide them with the correct amount of repetitions (some say 10,000). I say as many as possible. Bottom line, once the critical moment is there, the pulse rate often times goes to a point where our mind shuts down in terms of thinking our way through the moment.

Recognizing and creating awareness of the role that time plays in a critical moment is essential to the finished product on ice. The players who struggle with elongated time see their moment taking much longer than it actually is; and by a considerable margin. They need to understand this, and reduce this time to convert in practice, or it will never happen until you find a player who sees the game quiet and slow in a critical moment. This is also related to my zero inhibitions comment as well as the words charisma, skill to express your skill, killer instinct, boldness, swagger and attitude. Mentors using the words “play free, have fun and express yourself, build on this if you start real young. If you start real young, you will not have a problem with critical moment execution.

The mind is more important than break outs plays, defensive traps, shooting, scoring, passing and receiving. Without it the other things don’t work.

Players need to be taught that those adrenaline rushes they have in critical moments are supposed to be quiet and give the appearance of the game in slow motion. Part of the process is training your mind to be calm while you are in a hurry to get the shot off. The human mind likes to do one thing @ a time so it’s understandable when people experience difficulties in adrenaline rush situations. This is why your feet stop when you are about to catch a puck. This is why defensemen, in tandem, struggle with keeping their feet and hands moving laterally to create an open passing angle. There are countless other examples. Squeezing of the stick is non-existent when you understand how the mind works. Preparation reduces anxiety. While complex, it’s also simple.

Players need to be taught to react quicker in practice during a critical moment. “Don’t just shoot the puck to shoot it.” What seems like a long time during a critical moment in a game is not a long time @ all. Focus and attention to detail are paramount.

We are fortunate when we see a player who is hockey strong and understands the game well beyond any information others attempt to send their way. When players understand the game, there is the danger of too much information dulling their minds. Spend your coaching time oiling the hinges on the doors to prevent squeaking, and get them out on the ice. The flip side is most great players have a huge curiosity level and have a way of absorbing everything thrown their way. Coaches only need to know the saturation point and only experience can help you.

Social net and a coping strategy complement critical moment execution. Support systems lessen anxiety which leads to perfecting execution. Success goes hand in hand with smarts. Living the game, and those you work with, complements smarts.

Expecting people and players to do something out of the ordinary in everyday work, and each shift on the ice, is a given for me; but only if the people and players you work with believe you share the same passion for life, people and work.

Years ago I expected our players to train in the weight room. When I was around that weight room, they all gave much more than they would if I just told them, “I expect you to be in the weight room.” I found the difference was as high as 20 out of 20 versus 2 out of 20. The show up statistic was a little higher during the season, if I was a no show, than during the summers. Mentors sharing passion raises the bar, extends to the staff and captains, and on to the rest of the team.

Lastly, the value of “skate through plays” was apparent and used with frequency by the Russian team. I learned this fm Igor Larionov years ago but find it difficult to teach because it has to start with squirts and peewees. If not, minds have to be reprogrammed and that takes repetitions (10,000?). If I was coaching I would take a real honest run @ it. While picks in the NHL were eliminated fm the game, subtle picks are not detected. They work and free up great players to do damage to the opponent.

“PRACTICE LIKE YOU WILL EXPECT TO PLAY AND IT WILL HAPPEN!

Life is tricky with few warnings of what’s in store for us. I wrote some reports on all of the games. Something seeming right @ the moment might seem wrong the next day. Being with people who are important to me is what helps me the most. Being alone isn’t all that bad when you have colleagues working toward the same goal; always having your back side as part of their daily schedule.


“Life is what it is. Tricky, corners so close to turn, barriers so easy to knock down, emotions easier to deal with once we understand how the mind works; no warning of what’s to come.

The truth remains; curiosity, knowledge and understanding are critical and have to meet somewhere, however,
Stay hungry and humble, because we never arrive.”

–ole gringo-


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24621 So Clark Lake Rd P.O. Box 90 Nisswa, MN 56468-0090
Phone 218.96.2444 Fax 218.963.2325 Email chuck@mnhockeycamps.com
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